From practitioners, for practitioners 🌿
Lighting it, feeding it, sitting round it. Fire is the heart of most sessions and the thing children remember longest.
Fire earns its place because it is genuinely risky and genuinely rewarding, and children rise to it. A child who has been trusted with a fire steel and a ball of cotton wool is a different child by the end of the term — not because they can light a fire, but because somebody let them.
The structure matters more than the spark. A settled circle, a clear rule about how you move around it, a kettle that means something good is coming, and one adult whose only job is the fire. Get that right and the lighting itself is almost incidental.